128 HAWAII PARENT January/February 2025 child’s social-emotional development? “Don’t give up!” encourages Principal Vorderbruegge. “Surround yourself with other parents, particularly those who have older children and experiences with various strategies. Talk to your child’s teacher. And ask yourself, ‘Are the adults in my child’s life modeling positive behaviors regarding taking care of self, others and the community?’ Children are like sponges; they soak up what they see and hear.” If you continue to see worrisome patterns in your child’s behavior, discuss your child’s development with his or her pediatrician, childcare provider, and/or teacher. With consistent cultivation, our children can grow into not only physically and cognitively strong individuals, but also individuals who care about others and know how to respond and persevere through the many situations that life brings. one else builds an understanding of others and helps children see the world from a ‘bigger than us’ view.” Build healthy relationships. Winnie the Pooh said, “A little consideration, a little thought for others, makes all the difference.” “Arrange playdates that give children the opportunity to practice their skills in seeing things from others’ perspective and resolving conflict harmoniously,” recommends Principal Vorderbruegge. Play dates with children from a variety of age groups give opportunities to practice sharing, following rules, and communicating – even communicating through conflict. Also, allow your child to develop healthy relationships with aunties and uncles that you admire. Principal Vorderbruegge says, “Rely on others whose behaviors you value.” Are you feeling frustrated with your With consistent encouragement, children can grow into strong individuals who care about others and can persevere through life’s situations. “Children are like sponges; they soak up what they see and hear.”
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