126 HAWAII PARENT January/February 2025 Principal Vorderbruegge. “Encourage an attitude of ‘you first,’ such as ‘What would you like to play today?’” Giving your child chores or asking them what they want to wear for the day stimulate independent thinking. Understand Others As early as age three, children begin to empathize. Through various exposures to all types of people – insulated by protection and guidance, children learn about the various individuals living in our world. Principal Vorderbruegge says, “Expose your children to inter-generational gatherings. There is much to be learned from our elders.” “Engage in community service as a family,” offers Principal Vorderbruegge. “Giving back and working hard for someresilience and perseverance in your own life is good for children of all ages to witness.” Principal Vorderbruegge also encourages parents to be proactive in helping their children manage emotions: “Play the game ‘what if’ and give your child scenarios that include both positive and negative interactions. Proactively walking through scenarios will help children be prepared when they encounter a real life situation, whether it be good or bad.” Giving your child choices and encouraging independent thinking will help him or her feel more in control and will cultivate navigation skills through various situations. “Use intentional language with your children,” explains Give them time with their grandparents. There is much to be learned from our elders. “Allow your child to develop healthy relationships with aunties and uncles that you admire.”
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