sharing toys may find that a common interest helps them feel more at ease. Find out the interests of the kids you are hosting and plan an activity centered around one that excites everyone attending. Ideas could include a craft, a game, or visiting somewhere that fosters that interest. For example, if they are interested in nature, visit a local arboretum or go on a backyard scavenger hunt. If they are interested in tractors and farm animals, visit a local farm or ranch, such as Gunstock Ranch. Be Patient Whenever kids are involved, patience is important. Try to understand that kids may have different reactions to situations, things may not go exactly as expected, and that it may take some time for kids with special needs to warm up to the situation. Some children with special needs may prefer to participate in parallel play. Parallel play is when kids play beside each other, but do not interact with one another. Children who engage in parallel play still enjoy spending time together and are usually interested in what the other children are doing. If things do not go as planned, it is okay to cut the playdate short and try again in the future. Be Inclusive It is most important to note that kids with disabilities or special needs are just like anyone else; they want to interact with friends and 108 Hawaii Parent SEPTEMBER/OCTOBER 2026
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