May/June 2026 Hawaii Parent 117 What Is Bullying? Bullying is not just a disagreement or a conflict between children. It involves behavior that is meant to hurt, embarrass, or control another person. It usually happens more than once, and there is often a power imbalance. That imbalance can come from age, size, popularity, or social influence. Bullying can look different from child to child. Physical bullying includes hitting, pushing, tripping, shoving, or other unwanted physical contact. Verbal bullying includes teasing, threats, insults, or name-calling. Social or emotional bullying can mean spreading rumors, excluding someone on purpose, humiliating them, or encouraging others to turn against them. It is important to know that while bullying used to be more limited in school settings, it now happens more frequently in cyberspace. Cyberbullying often happens through text messages, group chats, social media, gaming platforms, or other online spaces. A cruel comment, embarrassing photo, or false rumor can spread quickly and make a child feel equally hurt or humiliated as if they were being bullied in person. ost parents hope their child will feel safe at school and when spending time with friends. When bullying enters the picture, that sense of safety can feel threatened very quickly. A child who once seemed happy and open may become quiet, worried, or resistant to going to school. Some children may even complain of headaches or stomachaches. Others pull away from friends, lose confidence, or begin to believe negative things said about them. Bullying can affect a child’s emotional health, school performance, and daily life. It can also leave parents feeling angry, helpless, or unsure of what to do next. The good news is that parents can make a real difference. M
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