UNDERSTANDING A FEAR OF THE DENTIST IN CHILDREN AND LOVED ONES When a child or loved one avoids dental visits or ignores a painful oral health issue, it may be more than simple procrastination. It could be a sign of dental fear or anxiety. Recognizing these feelings early is important. When children and loved ones feel supported and understood, they are often more willing to take small steps toward getting the care they need. COMMON SIGNS OF DENTAL FEAR Children and adults experiencing dental anxiety may: • Schedule appointments and cancel at the last minute • Refuse to make dental appointments altogether • Become upset or withdrawn before appointments • Get irritated when the dentist is mentioned • Avoid addressing ongoing oral health problems Parents and family members need to approach these situations with patience and understanding. Pressure, criticism, or shame can sometimes increase anxiety rather than reduce it. WHY DO PEOPLE FEAR THE DENTIST? Dental anxiety can develop for many reasons, including: • Negative or traumatic past experiences • Fear of pain • Feeling helpless or out of control • Embarrassment about oral health issues • A strong gag reflex • Learning anxiety from family members Children, especially, can pick up on a parent’s fears or nervousness surrounding dental visits. 96 Hawaii Parent July/August 2026
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