empathy, and predictability helps children feel more secure. When children trust that home is a steady base, they become more confident taking small social risks in a complex world. later. When the moment feels right, parents can offer gentle guidance about communication, boundaries, and healthy friendships. Supporting Children Who Struggle More Deeply Some children face social challenges that extend beyond everyday developmental bumps. They may misread cues, take interactions literally, or respond in ways that do not match the situation. These patterns can reflect attention differences, communication challenges, anxiety, or previous negative experiences with peers. Early support can make a noticeable difference. Social skills training gives children a safe place to practice conversation, flexible thinking, and problem solving. Parents also play a key role through modeling, rehearsal, and consistent routines. A home atmosphere that offers warmth, 126 HAWAII PARENT January/February 2026 A hug can help little ones express big feelings they’re still learning to put into words. “Asking questions with curiosity helps the child sort out both their reactions and the other person’s experience.” Dr. Elsa Lee is a neuropsychologist and clinical director at Assets School. She oversees the Transforming Lives Center that provides psychoeducational and neuropsychological evaluations for school-aged children in Hawai’i.
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