Although it can be exhausting, constant questions are a sign that kids are actively trying to learn and make sense of the world around them. Teaching children that it’s normal not to know the answers breaks the myth that adults need to always know the answers. If parents avoid answering “Why” questions, some children may be discouraged from asking questions, which may lead to feeling uncomfortable asking their teachers questions. Turn Questions into Empowerment Encourage your child’s curiosity by asking them, “What do you think is the answer?” The world of answers is at our fingertips, with options ranging from researching books at the library to browsing the internet (ensuring that parental controls prevent inappropriate content), and even creating a survey to ask friends and family for their opinions. Children will learn that often there are multiple answers and enjoy the quest for continued learning. Reassure your child that it’s okay if they’re wrong when brainstorming possible solutions. Remind them that their brain has an opportunity to practice hypothesizing, which strengthens their independent thinking skills. Making mistakes or not knowing the answers is not a sign of low intelligence. It’s the way we learn, grow, and develop a healthy mindset. Karen K.C. Gibson, founder of “Letting Go with Aloha,” is a parent coach and author of One Hundred Parenting Tips Inspired by the Pandemic, Mama’s Gotta Let Go, and 365 Parenting Affirmations and Quotes. She also runs Brain Builders, a tutoring service since 1999, and co-authored The Power to Rise Above. Learn more at karenthebrainbuilder.com and lettinggowithaloha.com. "Ignoring 'why' questions may discourage kids from asking—and make them hesitant with teachers too." 78 HAWAII PARENT September/October 2025
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