Mom friends understand, share tips, and remind you it’s all just a phase. 84 HAWAII PARENT November/December 2025 harder than expected. Working parents may find it difficult to connect with those who stay at home because their daily rhythms and priorities look so different. Age, family size, and unique circumstances can also shape how parents relate to one another. Even when caregivers share similar life stages, differences in parenting styles can create tension. One family might follow strict routines and structured activities, while another prefers a more flexible approach. Some set firm rules around screen time or nutrition, while others take a relaxed stance. These differences can make shared activities feel awkward and sometimes hold back deeper friendships from forming. Parenting often comes with self-doubt. Many caregivers worry about being judged – whether for how they feed their babies, manage routines, or respond to their keiki’s needs. These worries can make it difficult to open up, even though honesty and vulnerability are often what lead to real friendships. On “Parenting comes with self-doubt, and fear of judgment can keep caregivers from opening up—even though honesty and vulnerability are what build real friendships.”
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